I am deeply saddened by the loss that you and your family have encountered.You and your family are in my heart and mind.May our friendship and prayers ease you through this difficult time.However you are feeling right now is completely valid.Allow me to offer my words of condolence.Check out our other pages on grief, which include death anniversary quotes, scattering ashes ideas, and more. Here’s some extra support if you’re dealing with loss. But sometimes, it’s really hard to find the right words to say. Support and sympathy are vital to healing when someone has lost someone. Grief is different for everyone, but a kind word can go a long way. Here are over 100 condolence messages, sayings, and quotes to help you express your sympathy to others. And while there aren’t any one-size-fits-all condolence messages that will work for every person and every occasion, there are plenty of options out there to choose from. A lot of knowing what to say comes down to what you know about the person (for instance, if they’re someone who uses humor as a coping mechanism). You want to acknowledge their pain, but not make them feel worse. You want to show your support, and be positive, but not too positive. So when someone we know has lost a loved one, it can be hard to know what to say. Humans, as a group, aren’t great at dealing with grief or death.